Etiquette
Thai Social Hierarchy
Thai society has a deeply ingrained social hierarchy that influences every interaction.
Age and Status
- Elders are always respected — age brings automatic authority
- Younger people use polite particles and formal language with elders
- Terms like พี่ (pîi, older sibling) and น้อง (nɔ́ɔng, younger sibling) are used constantly
The Pronoun System
- Thai has many words for "I" and "you" depending on the relationship:
- ผม (pǒm) — I (male, polite)
- ดิฉัน (dì-chǎn) — I (female, polite)
- ฉัน (chǎn) — I (casual)
- คุณ (kun) — you (polite)
- เธอ (ter) — you (casual/intimate)
Respect Language
- ครับ (kráp) — polite particle for males
- ค่ะ/คะ (kâ/ká) — polite particle for females (statement/question)
- Adding these particles shows respect and good manners
Key Vocabulary
- ผู้ใหญ่ (pûu-yài) — elder / adult
- เด็ก (dèk) — child / younger person
- เคารพ (kao-róp) — to respect
- สุภาพ (sù-pâap) — polite